Wedding Preparation: 70% mark

We’re finally hitting the 70% mark for our wedding preparation!! 😀

During the last 3 days of March, we went back to Yamaguchi again for photoshoot and the last face-to-face discussion with the wedding planner before the big day. We wanted to have another final discussion in May, but it’s too costly for us so the planner squeezed everything into that last discussion when we’re there.

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Wedding Preparation: 50% completed

Finally the preparation has reached the half-way mark! 😀

After our trip back to Yamaguchi in January (link here), we went back again this month to decide on the dinner menu and also to collect the invitation cards.

Tell me, what is a wedding celebration without good food? 😉

We attended the hotel’s food tasting event together with Y-chan’s mum, aunt & his younger brother. We were seated according to the dinner course we’ve decided beforehand.


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Battle with the Evil Snow

Hello everyone! How’s your week going? 🙂

The weather recently in Japan is just so messed up. 😦 It has snowed thrice (including the previous post) for the past 2 weeks and as expected, the temperature is awfully COLD. X( *brrrrrr* And because of this bizarre weather, my flight back to Yamaguchi was cancelled. 😦 Most of the transportation were in handicapped mode. Now, who still says that snowing is FUN?

As we need to reach Yamaguchi by Saturday (8th Feb), we’re left with only 1 mode of transportation – the bullet train. By the time we reached Tokyo station, the amount of commuters waiting in line to get the tickets were crazy. The queue just grows with time. :O We went to queue up in the self-help ticketing machine thinking that it’ll take lesser time but to our horror, the stupid machine just doesn’t work for us.

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A short update of…

my wedding preparations. 🙂

Well well well…… I wanted to write this right after I came back from Yamaguchi, but I procrastinated it till today. *sends guilty look* 😐

So few weeks ago, we went back to Yamaguchi for a short 4 days stay. Or 3 days to be exact because we arrived at Yamaguchi in the evening which felt like a day was wasted. We are using the air transport more frequently as it’s cost saving. The tickets we paid was about 40,000yen (for 2 pax) compared to bullet train fares which will cost double the price.

Why we went back Yamaguchi???

  1. Y-chan to attend his friend’s wedding
  2. Our wedding preparations
  3. Visit grandma.

While Y-chan went to attend his friend’s wedding, I went on a date with his sister (with allowance given by grandma). 😀

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Attending funeral in Japan (cont.)

Finally the weather is being kind, and the temperature dropped 4°C to 33°C now. Although I think Singapore now might be even cooler than Japan. 😦

So I ended my post previously at the 2nd day afternoon of the wake. The 4 of us (Us, R-chan and Ryo – Y-chan’s younger brother) went to the funeral parlor straight after sending the car off. We planned to stay overnight at the parlor so that the following morning everyone won’t be in a rush.

Once we reached the parlor, we were brought to the resting room which is a Japanese style room (i.e. tatami floor). This room will also be the place where we’ll be resting for the night together with some other relatives. It has a changing room and also a small kitchen. The bathroom was separated from the resting room because it’s so huge. It has this super big bathtub (about 3 – 4 person can dip in) and that it can turn into a jacuzzi with the twist of a knob.

As there’s a ceremony at the evening and there’s still plenty of time left, the 4 of us just sat at the corner of the room. We were kept busy by doing some simple greetings and self-introductions to the relatives who came over. In this position………..

This sitting position is called Seiza (正座) which is the most common way of sitting in a tatami room. I think this continued for 2 hours straight and my knees and ankles were so sore that I can’t stand properly after that. 😦

We then attend the ritual ceremony and it ended within 1 hour. After which, we proceeded to have dinner at the dining room inside the parlor (all-in-one). The food was good and there’s free-flow of drinks including beers. There’s even a ‘waiting room’ where you can have free-flow coffee (24-hours). Cool huh! 😛

Some relatives continued to drink while some had already taken their bath and went to sleep. I, of course, went ahead to use the jacuzzi bath alone. So shiok can. Even shampoo, conditioner and body soap is Shiseido. 🙂 Had some mini talk with grandma & my mum-in-law to check on them before I got K.O. by the sleeping bug.

The 3rd day was quite slow-paced though. Not what I had expected. 😀 Had breakfast (quite a gorgeous meal) and off we went to attend the ritual ceremony. The ceremony is quite similar to Buddhist style where the monk will rant some scripts to ‘enable’ the deceased to have a smooth journey to heaven. Flowers were placed inside the coffin and some items which grandpa liked. After that, he was moved into the car to be sent to the cremation center.

I think this procedure is the same as Singapore. Maybe except the point where families and relatives of the deceased picked the bones up to place into the urn. I don’t remember seeing my relatives doing this when my grandma passed away. After which, everyone returns back to the funeral parlor to have lunch together before the whole thing ends. The lunch was super gorgeous and it’s like some nth-course meal. There was mini hotpot, sashimi, tempura and some other dishes. (Sorry no photos because I was famished and can only concentrate on eating!)

We returned back to grandma’s house to prepare for guests coming over for dinner. Some of the relatives ‘tabao-ed’ sushi, mini-sized udon and also gyoza from Ryo’s part-time restaurant. I was actually labelled as Ojiisan’s favorite person because I was good at mixing shochu (焼酎) at their requested ratio. LOL Everyone was so funny and they even mentioned of going to Singapore with me as their tour guide. I told them I wouldn’t mind as long as they pay for my expenses. 😛

We actually received grandpa’s last words for us during our last visit at the hospital. I think it’s so useful not just to me and Y-chan but to every couples out there.


(It’s okay to have arguments and quarrels, but at the end of this, is to be able to reconcile back.)